From Surviving to Thriving: Nicol’s Journey to Empowering Wellness

There was a time in my life when everything felt like it had been tossed into a blender set to “chaos". My world was crumbling. A physical breakdown forced me to confront my reality, and leave a toxic marriage—but if truth be told forced out by fate’s heavy hand and left me at a crossroads. I found myself standing amidst the wreckage of my life, a part-time stay-at-home mom with no clear roadmap and not a clue where to go next.

Spoiler alert: it wasn’t easy. Not even close. It felt like trying to piece together a 1,000-piece puzzle in total darkness, only to discover some pieces were missing. Every stumble, every tear, and every moment of gut-wrenching self-doubt felt like a cruel slap from reality. But each struggle also came with priceless lessons.

Friendships, Failures, and Facing Fears

Here’s a hard truth I learned along the way: not everyone in your circle is truly in your corner. In my darkest moments, my friend list shrank quickly, leaving me grappling with an overwhelming sense of failure. Despite it all, a tiny voice deep within whispered that this was the right path—a necessary one.

I leaned on my family—my father, mother, and siblings—who became my lifeline. Without their support, I don’t know where I’d be today. Rebuilding myself wasn’t just about climbing out of a slump; it felt more like scaling out of a bottomless canyon. Every step forward was like walking through a dark forest, unsure of what lay ahead but knowing I had no choice but to keep moving. Fear often cloaked me, but I kept pushing.

Adding to the pressure were the watchful eyes of my two daughters, observing my every move. I felt the weight of needing to model resilience, even when I didn’t feel it myself. Every decision I made had to be intentional, grounded, and genuine—not just for my sake, but for theirs. I wanted to show them what true strength looked like, even on the days when I felt at my weakest. While I may have faltered at times, often feeling like my own daughter was guiding me, I gave it everything I had and did my best.

From Rock Bottom to Rebirth

But here’s the silver lining of hitting rock bottom: it gives you a solid foundation to push off from. Slowly, step by shaky step, I began clawing my way out of the darkness. I discovered strength I never knew I had and started to rebuild myself. It wasn’t quick, and it wasn’t pretty, but it was progress.

Surviving wasn’t enough for me anymore—I craved more than just existing. I wanted to thrive, and that’s exactly what I set out to do. Along the way, I stumbled plenty, but I also uncovered clarity, resilience, and—most importantly—a passion for something greater.

Discovering My Calling

I love helping others. Becoming a wellness coach has been the most fulfilling chapter of my journey. Why? Because it allows me to transform my struggles and messy, heartbreaking lessons into a lifeline for other women. I don’t just share the highlights or polished victories. I offer the raw truths and the practical tools that helped me rise from the ashes.

My mission is simple: to help women reclaim their strength, rediscover their joy, and transform their lives. Whether you’re drowning in self-doubt, stuck in a life you never chose, or unsure how to take the next step, I’m here to tell you—it’s possible.

And let me be clear: being a coach doesn’t mean I have it all figured out. I’m still in the trenches, doing the work every single day. Life doesn’t come with a “finished” button, and that’s okay. The goal is progress, not perfection.

Let’s Rise Together

If you’re feeling stuck or uncertain about the road ahead, I see you. I am you. I’ve been in the depths and come out the other side—mud-covered but victorious. And the best part? You don’t have to do it alone.

So let’s do this together. Let’s confront the hard stuff, celebrate the wins, and build the vibrant, empowered life you deserve. The journey may be tough, but trust me—it’s worth every step.

Are you ready to RISE? Let’s take that first step together. 🌿